Love
Love
There is no one proper definition of the word ‘love’. It is too vague. It means different to different people. To some, love is giving your life to someone. To me, it is about going ahead in your life with someone; not to change for that someone. You got to be yourself.
Others think love is beautiful. To me, love is not only beautiful; it is a ‘roller coaster ride’. You make your decision with a payment, go through the ride, and when it is over, it leaves you feeling… full of emotions(depending how the ride was)! There is a lot of bitterness, sourness, and of course, comfort and spiciness in a relationship. An exciting ride will make you want to ride it again. A lousy ride, you will regret.
When it comes to that special someone, you should not use the word ‘sacrifice’. Sacrifice is to loose something that means a lot to you for something that is not so significant to you. For example, you say you sacrifice your friends for your girlfriend. It is as if you are saying that she is less important than your friends. Think about it, if you loose your friends, but gained someone who can give you much more than your friends, and walk your life with you, is it not worth it?
This special someone who is really sweet and gentle said to me. “If I spend time with another 20 or even 50 girls, do you think I will treat them the same or even close?” I said “No, because there is only one of me.” He replied in return, “Yes, because I cant love another like I love you. Cant share this special thing between us with someone else.” I know he means it by the look of his eyes. He has been so good to me. After more than 4 years, despite all the ‘roller coaster ride’, we are going through it again.
My mum told me, you will only know who is your meant to be, only when one of you take your last breath. Even in marriage there is divorce. You can love someone so much that you are willing to loose your life for that person, but still, it may not be yours to keep. If you think about it, it is true…
